Tasks and My Lack of Time Management
As the nature of human that stated by Dedi Mulyana in his book, he said that basically people are like to be free from any of responsibilities and duties (they do not want to be bounded with something) and moreover people will always try to delay and procrastinate the tasks or duties if they have the chance. After I read this fact I was aware why I always procrastinating my tasks, because I was unable to set and change my nature even I have already known about this fact.It is difficult to change our habbit if we do not have good circumtances we live in, some good friends we socialize with, and have not the strong motivation or goals.
This three aspects just based my own opinion after many times doing procrastination.ππ
1. The Circumstances
The circumstances is the most modifyng factors in terms of changing the habbit or self nature. My own experienced proved it, when I was in my village I lived with my parents and one younger brother, there I was lazy to pray together in the Mosque but after I am living in Medan and became mosque guider, I will defenitely praying together in the Mosque. I inferred that my circumstances in village was not good enough in compared with my new circumstances in Medan.
2. Friends we join with
The second aspect that influence our habbit or self nature is our friends, if we were socialize with the people who have well self-discipline in life, ability to manage the time perfectly, and full of spirit in doing it, much or less they will influence us to do the same way they did.
3. Motivation/ Goals
Motivation it can be intrinsic and extrinsic motivation. Motivation is the thing or things that can be the reason for us to push ourselves to change.
The person who has bad discipline and lack of time management will always feel regret for the change, time, energy and etc they ever had but did not take it wisely.
Last but not the least we have to remember that there no succes instantly without any struggle and sacrifice, no pain no gain. Life is not just about eat, sleep, and breath, but life more than all of that, life is how to maximize our strengths and abilities to help each others.
Even I have known all good sides of time management and knowning all bad side of lack of self-discipline I can't put away this procrastination habits. Oh Allah, I seek more of your help to change this bad behavior.
Thanks for reading my diary. I hope you are having great discipline and time management. And for anyone who has the suggestions, tips, and tricks to manage the time continuously, please comment below. And for anyone who has the same problem with me, I wish you can share it on comentar column in order we can take some lesson to change our bad habbitsπππ
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